Edward Ralph was the son of Edward and Alice Oakden (née Fairbank).
His father Edward was born in Nottingham in 1855, the son of Ralph Oakden and his second wife Jane. Edward was baptised at Nottingham St Mary on 5 October 1855. His mother Alice, the daughter of George and Hannah Fairbank, was born in Tresswell, Nottinghamshire, in about 1863.
Edward and Alice were married at Nottingham St Mary on 27 July 1891 and they had four children who were born in Nottingham: Alice Mary b. 1892 bap. Nottingham Holy Trinity 12 June 1892; Edward Ralph b. 1 June 1893 bap. Holy Trinity 2 July 1893; Arthur William b. 17 November 1894 bap. Holy Trinity 13 January 1895 and George Frederick b. 1897 bap. Nottingham St Matthew 21 March 1897.
The family lived at North Church Street between 1892 and 1895 and on Upper Talbot Street in 1897.
However, by 1901 Edward, a dealer in malt, and Alice were living on Castle Street, Nottingham, with their children Alice Mary (8), Edward (7), Arthur (6) and George (4). Also in the household was a general domestic servant.
His parents had separated by 1911 and Edward (55), a farmer, was living at Trent Vale Farm, Beeston, Nottingham, with his children Mary, Edward, William and George who were all at school. Also in the household was a general domestic servant, Carrie Sheffield.
Edward died on 14 November 1911. The probate record gave his address as Trent Vale, Meadow Road, Beeston, farmer, and 'of the Three Crowns Inn Parliament Street, Nottingham, licensed victualler.'
Alice Oakden (48), a tobbaconist and newsagent, was living at 188 Loughborough Road, Leicester, in 1911. Also in the household was a general domestic servant. Alice was living in Nottingham when she died on 30 August 1935. Probate was awarded to her unmarried daughter.
Arthur William, Lieutenant Royal Field Artillery, died in France on 29 June 1918 after a short illness and is buried in Abbeville Communal Cemetery Extension.
The probate records for Arthur and Edward gave their address as 9 Vickers Street, Nottingham.
George served as a lieutenant in the Yorkshire Regiment. He received Edward's medals after the war and the medal roll gave his address as 55 Herbert Street, London.
Alice Mary served as a VAD nurse from 12 July 1918 to 11 February 1919 (4th Northern General Military). The British Red Cross Society record gave her address as Bank House, Retford, Nottinghamshire, which was the home of relatives, William Oakden, a bank manager, and his wife Mary Elizabeth. Their son Arthur Marshall died of wounds at Gallipoli on 21 May 1915. (See record on this Roll of Honour)