Albert's brother, Frank, enlisted in September 1914 (2344 Private 1/8th Bn Sherwood Foresters) and was killed in action in France on 12 June 1915, buried Kemmel Chateau Military Cemetery. (See record on this Roll of Honour)
CWGC headstone personal inscription 'Rest after weariness peace after pain'
Register of Soldiers' Effects: his father, John, was his legatee.
His personal belongings, which were returned to his father at the end of 1916, comprised: disc, letters, photos, pocket book, purse, knife, pipe, 4 pencils, comb.
Grave of George and Mary Gibson (maternal grandparents), Minster churchyard: the kerbstone has an inscription to their two grandsons, 'Frank Paling killed in action buried at Kemmel Belgium June 12th 1915 aged 22 years. Cpl AE Paling also killed in action buried at Warlingcourt France July 13th (sic) 1916 aged 20 years'.
Newark Herald, 5 August 1916 (photograph): ‘Southwell Territorial’s Death'
'As briefly reported in our last issue, another Southwell lad, Corporal A Paling, has given his life for King and Country. The sad news reached his mother, Mrs A Paling, ‘Constance Villa; Southwell, from a nurse at a Casualty Clearing Station, who wrote as follows: ‘Dear Mrs Paling, I am afraid I have very sad news for you to-day. Your son, Corporal A Paling, 8th Sherwood Foresters, was admitted her on the 13th, suffering from wounds in the thigh. His wounds were most severe and extensive and he was very exhausted on admission. By next morning, the 14th he rallied a little and it was necessary to give him an anaesthetic to examine his wounds, when it was also found necessary to amputate his leg and very little hope was given of his recovery. This was about mid-day. During the afternoon he got much weaker and gradually sank and died at 4.50pm. He will be buried today in our little cemetery here. I expect our Chaplain, Mr Swift, will be writing you also. His effects will be sent to you in due course through the war Office. Please accept our sincere sympathy with you in your loss and believe me to be, yours sincerely, Sister-in-charge.’
'By the same post Mrs Paling had a letter from one of the officers of the Sherwood Foresters, saying: ‘It is with the greatest possible regret that I have to tell you that your son, Corporal A Paling, was severely wounded in the trenches on July 13th, by a German trench mortar. Although his wounds are very severe I hope he will pull through; he has the pluck and stamina, and am thankful to say that the last report I heard from the hospital was that his condition was satisfactory. He was wounded in the thigh. He will be greatly missed in the Company, both by his officers and those who knew him more intimately, for he was loved by all. He was an excellent NCO and I looked upon him as one of my right hand men, I sincerely hope he will be spared you and that before long you will be able to see him,. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Believe me, your truly, John Wm, Turner, Captain 8th Sherwood Foresters.’ On July 22nd Mrs Paling received a beautiful letter from the Chaplain, telling of his burial.
'Corporal Albert Paling, better known to intimate friends as ‘Bab’ is the youngest and also the second of Mrs Paling’s sons to give his life a sacrifice for many. It will be remembered that he had just joined his brother Frank in the trenches when the latter was killed. Since then Corporal A Paling has been both wounded and gassed. He gained his two stripes in France, being made lance-corporal last Christmas and corporal at Easter. Before joining the Forces he was a keen sportsman, winning several prizes at Southwell Flower Show. His favourite game was football, and he played both for Southwell Town and City, winning a Newark League Championship medal in the season 1912-13, He also won a medal last year while stationed with his Battalion at Luton. Deceased was only twenty years of age, joining the Army at the age of eighteen. Mrs Paling wishes to thank all kind friends for their sympathy in her sad bereavement, A memorial service in memory of Corporal A Paling was held at the Cathedral last evening.’ (www.britishnewspaperarchive.co.uk)
Newark Herald, ‘Deaths’, 30 April 1932: ‘Paling. On the 23rd last, at his residence, Constance Villa, Station Road, Southwell, John, beloved husband of Ann Paling, in his 75th year.’ (www.britishnewspaperarchive.co.uk)