John was the son of Charles Joshua Gosling and Maria Gosling nee Radford (b. 1859, married Nottingham 1876). No records have been found for Charles apart from that of his marriage although Maria was to have at least three children; William, Charles and John.
On the night of the 1881 census Maria (22), a cigar maker, was in her mother's home at 2 St Michael Street, Nottingham, with her son William (4). By 1891 she was living at 3 Beacon Street, Nottingham and although still married was described as the head of the household. Also at home were her three sons, William (14), Charles (11) and John (6). Also in the household were two lodgers Kate Clarke (23, cigar maker) and Mary A Radford (30, lace scalloper) who was Maria's sister.
John joined the Royal Navy in 1900 and at the time of the 1901 census was under training at the Royal Navy's training establishment, HMS Ganges, near Ipswich.
John married Nellie Elson Eyre in Nottingham in 1909 (registered April/May/June). In 1901 Nellie (16 b. Eastwood) had been a domestic servant in the Nottingham household of Rudolf and Gertrude Hempel and their three children. John transferred to the Royal Fleet Reserve in September 1909 (own request).
At the time of the 1911 census he was living at 6 Glen Roy Terrace, Hood Street, Sherwood, Nottingham; Nellie was not at home on the night of the census. Also in the household were two boarders, Hilda Eyre (15, b. Eastwood, laundry hand) and Amanda Melvina Eyre (13 b. Eastwood, errand girl). Hilda and Amanda were sisters, the daughters of Ellen and Samuel Eyre; they were probably related to Nellie.
In 1911 John's widowed mother, Maria, was living with her eldest son William, his wife Kate (37) and daughter Edna (8) at 5 Marshall Street, Nottingham. Maria died in 1925 aged 66.
John's RN record shows that Glen Roy Terrace was John's home address at the time of his death although the notice of his death in the local paper gives his widow's address as Glewby Terrace, Sherwood.
It is likely that Nellie remarried as there is a record of a Nellie E Gosling marrying a John W Draycott in 1921 (Jul/Aug/Sep); she died in 1967 age 82 (death registered Nottingham, March).