ALTERNATIVE SPELLING OF SURNAME - OCKLEFORD
Harry Lane was born in Grantham in 1883 (birth registered A/M/J Grantham) and evidence suggests that he was the son of Frederick and Mary Ockelford.
Harry and his family have proved difficult to trace but a notice of Harry's death in the local paper named a brother, George D [Dieters] Ockleford, and another brother, John Marshall (Jack), was named as his legatee. John has been traced to the 1871 Census when he was living with his parents and two siblings. Also, as will be seen from the family history below, it seems that a number of siblings, including Harry, later made their home in Nottingham with a married sister. If these do comprise the Ockelford family then it seems that there were at least nine children: Sarah (b. 1866), Lucy Mary (b. 1868), John Marshall (b. 1869), Minnie (1872), Frederick William (b. 1874), George Deiter (b. 1880), Rose Eleanor (b. 1882), Harry Lane (b. 1883) and Albert Edward (b. 1890). If the information that is available on various census is correct then it suggests that his parents' first child may have been a daughter, Sarah, born in 1866 and their last child a son, Albert Edward, born in 1890, although the age range of the children could also suggest that their father made a second marriage.
One page of Harry's Short Service Attestation of 1902 survives and on this Harry declared that his father was dead although no record of his parents' deaths have yet been traced. However, looking at the records of some of his siblings there is a possibility that their family life had been disrupted by 1901 and perhaps as early as 1891.
John Marshall Ockleford (b. 1869 Grantham), was recorded on the 1881 Census, living with his parents Thomas H and Mary E Ockelford (sic) at 73 (?London) Road, Spitalgate, Grantham, Lincolnshire, together with two older siblings, Sarah (4, b. 1866 Grantham) and Lucy Mary (3, b. 1868 Grantham).
None of the family has been traced on the 1881 Census but in 1891 John Marshall (21) was a servant/journeyman butcher in the household of George Turner, also a journeyman butcher, at 13 Market Street, London, in the civil parish of St George Hanover Square.
In 1901 there is a record of a Harry Ockelford (sic) living with his married sister, Minnie Coverley Ault nee Ockelford (29, b. 1872 Grantham) at 6 Broad Oak Street, St Ann's.
Minnie had married William Ault (38 b. 1864 Nottingham) at Nottingham Register Office in 1897; the witnesses were Mrs Ockelford and Rose Ockelford. By 1901 William, a sugar boiler, and Minnie had two children, Sarah Elizabeth (b. 1898 Nottingham) and James (b. 1901 Nottingham). Also in the household on Broad Oak Street were Minnie's siblings, Frederick William Ockelford (26, b. 1874 Grantham) a general labourer, Rose Eleanor (19 b. 1882 Grantham) a blouse hand, Harry (17) and Albert Edward (10, b. 1890 Grantham).
Ten years earlier in 1891 Minnie had been a servant in the household of Thomas and Valia Stockwell in Islington, London.
By 1911 William and Minnie Ault and their two children had moved to Wales where William was still working as a sugar boiler. In 1911 they were living at 30 Alexandra Road, Swansea, but when William attested in 1914 at the age of 40 they were living at 243 Corporation Road, Newport, Monmouthshire. William served in the South Wales Borderers (3/14992) from 14 October 1914 to 14 January 1916 when he was discharged as unfit for active military service - he had developed chronic rheumatism after sleeping under canvas at Seaford, Sussex, in December 1914.
Harry had joined the Army in April 1902 and by 1911 was serving in India with the 1st Battalion Sherwood Foresters.
His brother, George Deiters (Deitiers) Ockelford (b. 1880 Grantham), had married Annie Elvidge (b. 1884 Nottingham) in Nottingham in 1900 and the following year in 1901 they were living at 2 Cradock Street, Loughborough, with their son George Frederick (1 b. 1900 Nottingham, registered as 'Ocklesford'). (George Frederick died on 6 August 1956, 71 Main Road, Wilford, Nottingham, Probate awarded to his married sister, Florence Lilla Richmond and her husband Charlie Richmond.)
Ten years later in 1911 George and Annie were living at 28 Ethel Grove, Kings Meadow Road, Meadows, Nottingham. They gave the information on the census that they had had five children all of whom were still living, but only four were in the household on the night of the census; Alice (9), Florence Lilla (6), Annie (5) and Rose Eleanor (2). Also in the house and recorded as boarders were Nellie Elvidge (24 b. Farnsfield) and her two children Thomas Charlie (2 b. Nottingham) and Lilla (4m b. Farnsfield).
John Marshall Ockelford who had been a journeyman butcher in London in 1891 was a butcher on his own account by 1911. He had maried Emmeline Mary Minchley (b. Bottsford, Lincolnshire) in 1892 (O/N/D, Grantham) and by 1911 they were living at 56 Burlington Road, Thornton Heath, Croydon, with their three children Thomas Henry (16) a grocer's assistant, Mabel Emmeline (14) and Albert Edward (9).
At the time of Harry's death in 1914 his address was Guildhall Cottages, Shakespeare Street, Nottingham. As he was a regular soldier this may have been the home of one of his siblings.
John Marshall Ockelford died on 22 December 1939 at the age of 70. Probate was awarded to his widow, Emmeline Mary, of 56 Burlington Road, Thornton Heath, Surrey.
Annie Ockelford the wife of George Deiters died on 25 May 1944, although she died in Lancaster her home was at 10 Cross Street, Sandiacre, Derbyshire. Probate was awarded to her husband who was described as a leading boilersmith. George Deiters Ockelford died in 1961 (registered December, Basford) aged 81.