Thomas (Tom) was the son of William Astill and his wife Ada Mary nee Taylor.
William was born in Plumtree/Ruddington, Nottinghamshire, and Ada Mary was also born in Plumtree/Ruddington in 1867 (A/M/J Nottingham), the daughter of Edwin and Mary Taylor. They were married in 1886 (O/N/D Bingham) and had six children, Mary Elizabeth b. Normanton on the Wolds 1887 (A/M/J Bingham), Edwin b. Stapleford birth registered 1889 (J/F/M Shardlow), William b. Bramcote 1891 (A/M/J Shardlow), Thomas (Tom) b. either Bramcote (Army record) or Stapleford (census) abt 1894, Kate b. Nottingham 1896 (A/M/J Nottingham) and John b. Nottingham 1 October 1897.
Another child, Florrie Astill, was named on a list of Tom's surviving blood relatives which was compiled by his mother in October 1919. Florrie was then 17 years old (b. abt 1902) and living with her mother. No other records have been found to identify this child and she was not named by Tom on his army records, but nor was his married sister Mary Elizabeth Wright.
In 1891 William Astill (25) a coal miner and Ada (24) were living at Church Street, Stapleford, with their two children Mary (4) and Edwin (2).
Ada has not yet been traced on the 1901 Census but William (37), who was now working as a general labourer, was living at 25 Lucknow Street, Nottingham. Their five youngest children were in the home on the night of the census: Edwin (12), William (9), Thomas (7), Kate (5) and John (3). The eldest child, Mary Elizabeth, has not yet been traced on the 1901 Census but she married Ernest Edward Wright four years later in 1905 (J/F/M Nottingham).
William and Ada may have already separated by 1901 as she is not recorded in the family home on either the 1901 or 1911 Census, but certainly by the time Tom attested in 1911 his army records show various changes of address for both his parents and his siblings. Unfortunately, these changes are not dated but give an idea of how the family members dispersed. (See 'extra information').
In 1911 William (44), a general labourer, was living at 16 Lomas Yard, Bellar Gate, Nottingham, with two of his children, William (19) a general labourer in a coal yard, and Kate (14). William senior employed a housekeeper, Annie Maria Newcombe (53, b. Lincolnshire) who was married. He declared on the census that he had been married for 26 years and had six children. Sadly, Kate Astill died later that year (1911 A/M/J Nottingham) aged 14.
William and Ada's other sons, Edwin, Tom and John, have not yet been traced on the 1911 Census.
The eldest daughter, Mary Elizabeth Wright (24), and her husband Ernest Edward Wright (34), a newsagent, were living at 8 Lomas Yard, Bellar Gate, Nottingham, in 1911. She and Ernest had four children; William Edward (5), Edith Emma (4), Beatrice Annie (2) and John Edwin (1 month).
Ernest Wright attested in February 1915 aged 37 years 3 months and served in the Royal Field Artillery (8006). He was still living on Bellar Gate when he attested but was now working as a town labourer. Only one document of his Short Service Attestation survives. Ernest died in 1936 (Mar Nottingham) aged 58 and his widow probably married Laurence Wilson in 1942 (O/N/D Basford).
Thomas' brother John (Jack) served in the Royal Navy (Bristol Z/4445 Able Seaman) in the Royal Naval Division (Anson Bn) and died of wounds on 30 May 1918 (Bagneux British Cemetery, Gézaincourt). According to his Naval record his sister Mrs E [Mary Elizabeth] Wright of 8 Lomas Yard, Bellar Gate, and his mother, Mrs A Geary (sic) of 5 Lucknow Street, Gedling Street, Sneinton, were informed of his death.
There is a record of the death of an Ada M Astill in 1931 (Sep Nottingham, b. abt 1866).